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On Acceptance
Short description: On Acceptance unconditional acceptance, Depth of experiencing Psychologists, Spiritual teachers and everyone often speak
of acceptance, of ability to “accept the situation”; as an option, “to let go” , - as of a necessary factor of experiencing life ...
[ ] What is wrong here?
Is our own function and our own attitude towards a situation, perhaps, principles and striving, also objective components
of a situation? Aren't they also what should be accepted?
[ ] It looks like the same meaning of a term “acceptance” have been distorted by many authors and masters, willingly or unconsciously.
It has also been misunderstood by many, even those with great awareness level and ability of understanding many evolutionary teachings, etc.
[ ] So, they often speak of acceptance, of ability to “accept the situation”; as an option, “to let go” - as of a necessary factor of life experiences.
But acceptance should only be realized, true, and not forced or obligatory. Accepting a suffered acceptance, you actually are deceiving yourself.
You are only increasing your inner resistance to that, what should be changed according to your inner understanding, or should become an object of
interaction, reflection or transformation. Transformation may happen through the means of an expressed opinion; with the help of so-called emotions;
through an active interaction. And when you see, that an interaction is needed in a certain situation, with a certain partaker, that indicated a
need for exactly such an active position, in the external circumstances, or in the field of consciousness change. In a meanwhile, the acceptance will
change its meaning for you and will mean:
- Accepting of your own active participation, own actions and emotions, and of all own states, which you both experience and invoke in the others;
- Acceptance of the whole existing situation in both passive and active modules.
[ ] Acceptance does not mean passiveness, rather acceptance of passiveness or activeness, in you and in the others. Acceptance, towards surrounding
and the set up, is a really important tool, a factor and a state of mind, necessary for experiencing and manifesting in the programs as a part of
working-through process. Still, acceptance should not mean a passive taking of a situation where necessary active participation is required, or even
certain principles should be stood for. Certain values are worthy of protection, at some point of a life-path.
[ ] Manifesting such an acceptance, -of the surrounding and circumstances, -of other participants, -emotions (of the others and ourselves),
- of ourselves, -of our perception, -of our actions and their effects; we are really accepting an experience and ourselves in it. Another indispensable
component of every action except acceptance, is is it's contemplation (with
no false mind, but with mindfulness), consciousness of an action, including all words, their effects and accompanying states.
Stay in bliss!
Elves as messengers
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